A wedding reception is a party held after a marriage ceremony. It is a way for the newly married couple to welcome family and friends, which is why it is called a reception—because the couple receives guests for the first time as a married pair. Hosts choose the food and drinks, and a wedding cake is often included.
It is traditional in many cultures to have a party after a wedding. These events can last from 30 minutes to several hours or even days. Most receptions take place in the evening for dinner, but the couple may choose to have a luncheon, brunch, or afternoon tea instead. The couple decides all the details, such as the time, place, and activities.
In some cultures, separate celebrations are held for the bride’s and groom’s families.
Before receptions became popular, weddings were often celebrated with wedding breakfasts (for those who had morning ceremonies) or wedding balls (for those who had evening ceremonies). Receptions, which became common in the 20th century, replaced these events. Today, the term "reception" is used for any social gathering after a wedding, whether it is a brunch, tea, dinner, or dance.
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Before World War II, most weddings were held at the bride's home, with the style of celebration depending on the family's financial situation. Wealthy families might host a grand ball, middle-class families might have a luncheon, and working-class families might have an afternoon tea with cake and lemonade.
The type of celebration often depended on the family's income. In some cases, families chose to have mass weddings to share costs. At the start of the 20th century, dance halls became popular, and people rented them for celebrations that could not be held at home.
Today, weddings are often held in hotel ballrooms, banquet halls, wedding venues, community halls, or social halls at churches or other sacred places. For smaller weddings, restaurants or garden parties at home are also common. Many businesses specialize in providing spaces for weddings.
During a receiving line, the newlyweds, hosts, and sometimes their parents or honor attendants stand in order of importance and greet each guest. Each guest begins by greeting the person with the lowest rank, then introduces themselves if needed. The first person in the line introduces the guest to the next person, and this continues until the guest has spoken to everyone. Guests usually only say their names and offer greetings. This process is efficient and avoids delays.
Western etiquette requires at least one of the hosts or the newlyweds to greet guests, but other wedding party members, such as parents who are not hosting or siblings, are not required to be in the receiving line. It is now common for only the couple to be in the line, as many couples host and pay for their own weddings.
After greeting all guests, the receiving line ends, and those who were in the line can join guests, eat, and talk.
Another option, especially popular on the East and West Coasts of the United States, is a grand entrance instead of a receiving line. During a grand entrance, the wedding party, parents, or the bride and groom are introduced by a master of ceremonies, toastmaster, disc jockey, or band leader. This method is faster than a receiving line, and guests may be seated before the wedding party arrives. Introductions may include music and information about each person, but unlike a receiving line, guests do not get a chance to speak to the people being introduced.
The food served at a wedding depends on the time of the event and local customs. It can range from a non-alcoholic drink and cake to elaborate, multi-course meals. The type of food is chosen based on the hosts' budget, as wedding catering costs have increased.
Some weddings, especially those where the culture or religion prohibits alcohol or dancing, focus on dessert. Hosts may also choose to honor local traditions, such as serving a French croquembouche or a cookie table in Pittsburgh.
The wedding cake is often a multi-tiered, decorated layer cake. Some couples display a smaller cake and use sheet cake for serving.
The groom's cake is a tradition mainly in the southern United States. Historically, a second cake was offered to complement the bride's white-iced cake, and today, it is often a chocolate cake shaped or decorated to reflect the groom's interests.
If a full meal is served, the cake is usually served after the meal. Otherwise, it is served as soon as all guests have been greeted.
The couple typically cuts the first piece of cake together, a tradition inspired by an ancient Roman wedding rite. They may also share a bite of cake or sip a drink together. Serving the cake is considered an honor, similar to pouring tea at a formal tea party.
In most Western countries, toasts are made by members of the wedding party, such as the bride's father, groom, best man, or maid of honor. However, there is no strict rule about who must give toasts or whether toasts are required at all.
A new trend is the use of a DVD slideshow or photo montage showing the couple's life together. These are created from photos and videos, set to music, and shown on a TV, monitor, or projector.
If dancing is part of the reception, the couple usually starts with their first dance. In the past, this was called a "bridal waltz" to a love song, but other dance styles are now common. Some couples choose choreographed routines or styles like club, disco, or hip hop.
Top 40 songs are increasingly popular for the first dance. In the UK, "You Got Me Thinking" by Joshua Radin was a favorite in 2020. The couple chooses a DJ and agrees on a playlist. The DJ usually performs after the traditional parts of the ceremony.
Traditionally, guests would join the dancing in order of importance, as at a ball. Recently, some families ask guests to wait until after watching special dances, such as the couple dancing with their parents or in-laws. However, there is no requirement for anyone to dance or with whom.
Wedding receptions often include entertainment to entertain guests. Options include DJs, live bands, dancers, magicians, comedians, and other performers. Hiring entertainers is often a luxury, but it is becoming more common.
A ceremony may include the newlyweds' departure. Guests may throw rice or birdseed to symbolize abundance. Birdseed is preferred by facility managers because it is easier to clean up than rice. New, mess-free options like blowing soap bubbles or ringing bells are also used.
As the newlyweds leave, they are the guests of honor.
Chinese traditions
Unless the wedding couple has a wedding registry, it is best not to give gifts or gift certificates. For Chinese weddings, cash or a check is the traditional gift. (Traditional Italian weddings similarly include cash gifts.) The check should be placed in a red envelope or red pocket with the givers' names on it and given when signing in at the restaurant. When choosing the amount of money to give, givers avoid numbers considered unlucky, such as 4, and prefer combinations of lucky numbers, such as even numbers, numbers with 8 (which sounds like "fortune") and 9 (which sounds like "longevity" – meaning "may your marriage last long"). White envelopes are never used for wedding gifts or other joyful events because white is associated with death. In some Chinese weddings, elder relatives may also give gold jewelry.
Wedding invitations often list two times: 恭候 (gōnghòu/greeting) and 入席 (rùxí/reception). These times are usually at least two hours apart (sometimes four hours). The first time is when the bride, groom, and their families are ready to greet guests. The second time is when the reception or banquet begins. The time between these events is called the entertainment time. During this time, the restaurant may provide games like poker or mahjong (麻將) for guests to play. Guests may also socialize, take photos with the bride and groom, or their families. In Chinese weddings in the U.S., mahjong is less common before the banquet and is often replaced by a cocktail party. However, in southern China, Hong Kong, Macau, and parts of Canada with large Cantonese populations, mahjong may still be played before dinner.
At the sign-in tables, two people (one from the bride's family and one from the groom's family) will register guests and collect gifts or red envelopes. Often, there are two separate guest lists: one for the groom's family and one for the bride's family. The best man and maid of honor will then direct ushers to guide guests to their seats.
During the banquet, speeches are given by the parents, the best man, the maid of honor, and a guest speaker. The event includes cake cutting, toasts, a tea ceremony, and dancing. The two central tables are reserved for the bride's and groom's families.
A Chinese wedding banquet typically includes nine or ten courses. Expensive dishes such as shark fin, abalone, lobster, jumbo shrimp, squab, sea bass, or sea cucumber are common. A whole fish, chicken, or pig is served because these items symbolize luck and completeness in Chinese wedding culture.
Traditionally, after the fifth dish of the dinner, the bride, groom, and their families will visit each table to toast the guests. At this time, the bride may change into a traditional Chinese red wedding dress (鳳褂, or qípáo) if she was wearing a different style of clothing earlier.
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Wedding decorations can be different depending on the culture and how much money is available.
- A modern wedding reception in Vietnam
- A very detailed wedding reception in 1894 in Australia
- The wedding took place outside.
- A wedding reception in 2019 in Bangladesh